‘Cougar epidemic’ rages as teachers seduce students (Me Like Sexy Teacher PICS)

‘Cougar epidemic’ rages as teachers seduce students

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Published: 02 June, 2011, 21:13

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TAGS: Children, Crime, Scandal, Law, Sex, USA,Education

Two female teachers have become the latest in a string of ‘cougars’ charged with engaging in sexual activities with underage students.

Amy Caudle, at eacher in Alabama was charged with sexually abusing three students and pled guilty to two counts. She was sentenced to 15 years in prison; however she will serve three years and receive credit for time already served.

The judge rules she must resign from her job and give up her teaching credentials. Further, McGuire will be forced to register as a sex offender.

According to records, Caudle performed oral sex on at least two students in her car. She was found out when she slipped up and told a former school employee.

In South Carolina a Spanish teacher resigned from her job following charges of sexual batter with a student.

The courts allege that high School teacher Abby McElhenny was involved in a sexual relationship with a 16-year-old student.

The student was found out by his parents, when they learned he had been lying to them about spending then night at a friend’s home. They later found hundreds of text messages between the student and an unknown number.

When a friend attempted to call the unknown number pretending to be a salesperson, they discovered it was the teacher and the student had been having an affair with her.

Both teachers join a growing list of female teachers who are caught in sexual relationships with their students. In May alone, there have been at least 6 cases reported of female teachers having sex or engaging in sexual activity with one or more students. Over the past school year there have been over an estimate 25 cases.

Some argue the lines between teacher and student have become blurred and much of American culture has become over sexualized.

“I have had teachers in my practice who are friends with their students on Facebook and they don't see anything wrong with it,” child psychologist Dr. Michael Oberschneider told the Daily Mail. “It's a blurring of boundaries but your teacher is not your friend. We need to get the boundaries back.”

The roles of teachers need to be reinstated. Teachers are not a friend or a buddy, they are teachers. Often this leads to other issues.

“As a nation we are over sexulising things,” he commented. “Our prime time shows are becoming very graphic, we have TV shows that encourage 'cougars' – they're saying isn't it a wonderful idea for older women?”

“This idea of the cougar and the inappropriate term MILF. It's trendy to be with someone's mom,” he added.

Oberschneider explained that younger teen boys see having sex with an older woman or a woman in a position of power as an accomplishment, a victory to be honored.

“I've had teenage boys in my office talking about being with older women and their parents are laughing,” Oberschneider said. “The father is almost saying ‘atta boy’.”

“There is a certain mystique around the older woman in our society,' he added. 'If it was a man (who is abusing) in our society we are harsher, but when it's a woman we kind of wonder about it.”

American society almost sympathizes with female teachers who sleep with students, while simultaneously demonizing a male who does the same thing.

NEWS > U.S.A. > MALE STUDENTS FLOCKING TO FLORIDA AS TEACHER SEX CASES BECOMES EPIDEMIC

MALE STUDENTS FLOCKING TO FLORIDA AS TEACHER SEX CASES BECOMES EPIDEMIC

June 1 2009

Jacksonville, FL – The libido of the teenage male has often led lives in awkward and unexpected directions. With hormones rushing and maturity lacking more than a few get themselves into trouble during their teen years. It is in those heady days though that many teens define their sexuality. Those who are promiscuous tend to stay that 
way; those who are cloistered tend to do the same. As awkward as those years can be there is one constant for most; Sex feels good and most want as much of it as they can.
It only makes sense then that young male teens have begun flocking to Florida high schools. As case after case of female teachers sleeping with their students begin to appear throughout the state, education officials are now having to deal with a massive influx of students, primarily male, looking to get a spot in their schools. Young men have been flocking to the state in unheard of numbers, overwhelming administrators and leaving schools overburdened. 
“The rise in sex cases throughout Florida has really come as a surprise for many. These types of cases occur throughout the country and the world but for whatever reason Florida has become an epicentre for this behaviour. Naturally that’s going to provoke a lot of interest from young men,” said Scrape TV Education analyst Ken Ridley. “Of course as more students begin to 
crowd into the same number of classrooms the odds of getting lucky are going to decrease significantly but it’s a bit like playing the slots. When one machine is paying out over and over again you have to try your luck even if logically you know the odds are against you. For many young men playing the odds is all they have going for them.”
State wide enrolment increased 5% in the first half of 2009 but is expected to grow another 15% for the upcoming 2009-2010 year. Florida officials are currently working on a plan to deal with the increased demand.
“Space is a major issue. We simply do not have enough classrooms to accommodate this influx of students at this point so we may be struggling with that for a little while.
The teacher issue is going to be a little easier to solve. We’ve made a concerted effort to reduce the requirements in order to become a teacher and so that should help with staffing issues, especially in south Florida,” said a spokesperson for the Florida school board. “Obviously we are going to give preference to female teachers. Our studies have shown that the majority of sex cases that have shown growth have involved female teachers and male students. We haven’t seen a significant increase in enrolment from female students. I’m sure that’s not a libido thing, probably just a result of it being a whole lot easier for girls to have sex than it is boys. We feel that we will be ready for the new students though.”
School officials are also struggling with exposure issues. Sex cases between students and teachers are often heavily prosecuted but such cases also bring free advertising for the opportunities in the state. 
“Schools make money through attendance. The more students they have and the more often they show up the more money that individual school earns. I can think of no better way to get students to show up for class than with the promise, or at least temptation, of sex. Get the right teachers in place and Florida schools will be raking in the cash,” continued Ridley. “In the long term you may have issues to deal with such as emotional trauma but this is Florida after all and so the amount of damage will be hard to measure. It could also help set a whole new generation for success. After all these young damaged men will likely have a few daughters between them and that will help start the cycle again. If Florida officials play this right they could potentially be making money unlike anyone thought possible through schooling in Florida.”
Florida officials made no comment on the training or measurements required to become a teacher in the state.  

     

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5 Ways to Make It Feel Like the First Time

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By Jenny Block

Published May 31, 2011

Do it like a newbie.

Remember when you first starting having sex? Sure, some of it was awful. The embarrassing fumblings, the premature finishes. But there was also something really great about it. Something innocent and new and surprising.

There was also something really hot about it. That abandon. That passion. That “I don’t know what this is that we’re doing, but let’s not ever stop.” Whatever happened to that? I don’t know.

All I know is that all of that seems to change as we get older and things become, well, old hat. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Here are five ways to bring all of that back into your sex life no matter how long you’ve been at it.

1. Go for it! People have such enthusiasm when they’re new to it all. They can’t wait to do it. And they’re not ashamed to tell their partner just that. Something changes after you’ve been around for a while. You don’t want to sound silly or needy or come across as an overenthusiastic kid.

Well, forget all of that. Tell your partner just how much you want him or her no matter how crazy or cliché it might sound. And don’t be shy. It can be very sexy to say exactly how you want to touch or lick or bite or take your partner. So tell it like it is. You’ll be amazed at the result. A little enthusiasm can go a long way…

2. Experiment. There’s a dangerous thing that can happen after you’ve been in the saddle for some time. You get into a rut. I guess people figure, “This works. Why mess with it?” But when sex is new, all you do is experiment. New positions. New props. New places.

So don’t let your experience hold you back. Let it free you up to try whatever you feel so inclined to try. How about introducing some toys or maybe a little light bondage? Come on, you know there’s a naughty side of you itching to come out and play. And if it doesn’t work, who cares? Going back to the drawing board has never been so fun.

3. Sneak around. Depending on how young you were and what the circumstances were, getting down just might have required a little getting around…parents, siblings, friends, future mother-in-laws. There was something very sexy and exciting about worrying about getting caught.

All that goes away when you have a room of your own. So, why not pretend you don’t? Sneak down to the family room after the kids go to bed. Or check into a local, swanky hotel. If you’re feeling really adventurous, how about a hayloft or, dare I say it, the car? The point is to get out of your comfort zone and into your erogenous zones.

4. Take your time. Seems like it’s all about how quickly can we get things done these days. We’re tired. There aren’t enough hours in the day. Someone else, everyone else needs us. It wasn’t like that when we first started fooling around.

So carve out some time. There is always a way to make time when it can improve our relationships and feed our well-being. Carve out an hour or two. Turn off the phones. All of them. Tell everyone else to deal with it. Whatever “it” is and disappear into each other for a while.

Seriously. Disappear. And get back to why you fell for this person in the first place. Get back to the hunger and away from the humdrum. The great sex will be worth it in and of itself. But the recharge you’ll get as well will be a welcome bonus.

5. Forget yourself. People tend to become more self-conscious the older they get. We start to ask ourselves all sorts of questions. How do I look naked? Do I look weird when I do this? What will he/she think of me tomorrow? What if I do this wrong?

But when we were young, we were full of ourselves and anxious to share just how great we are. Not one of those questions or the answers matter to your partner. All that matters to them is being with you. So, take on a little youthful self-centeredness and relax. You’re with your partner for a reason. If you want to feel sexy, act sexy. If you want to be devoured, devour. If you want to get it, give it.

There are lots of things that are great about being past those early stages of sexual experimentation. But there are also plenty of things that have gotten lost along the way. But just because they’re hidden, doesn’t mean they’re gone.

Bring them back. Bring back the excitement and breathlessness and the fun. Bring back the hot, sweaty, “please don’t stop, I’m never going to ever let you go” kind of nights (or afternoons for that matter) that you used to have before you knew better. Forget behaving yourself. It’s way over-rated.

It doesn’t take much. Just a little time and attention. Trust me. You’ll be glad you did.

Read more: http://www.foxnews.com/health/2011/05/27/5-ways-make-feel-like-time/#ixzz1NxTv8ziD

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Playboy sex study results:Women still faking orgasms

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Playboy magazine has performed a sex study every year since 1983, and the 2011 results have just arrived. The study, administered to 2,310 random American adults online, has some surprising finds. Here are six of my favorite statistics:

33 percent of men and 23 percent of women who have used a dating site have done so while already in a relationship

20 percent of men and 29 percent of women never receive oral sex from their partners

40 percent of adults between 18 and 24 years old have not yet had sex

24 percent of men and 13 percent of women who have had an STD did not inform their partner(s) after being diagnosed

73 percent of women but only 43 percent of men know the first and last name of everyone they've slept with

16 percent of men and 46 percent of women have faked an orgasm

To sum it up, your girlfriend might be trolling dating sites for a new partner, whilst still dating you. If she is, perhaps it's because you're not performing oral sex on her. And ladies, if your ex-boyfriend found out he has an STD, there's only a twenty-five percent chance he'll mention it. Though, in fairness, maybe he tried to look you up to give you the news, but realized he had totally forgotten your last name.

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